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Amber Myers Wells's avatar

Kara's criticism that feminist thought (be it conservative or liberal) can't exclude a person's physical body from their lived experience is well-taken. I train Brazilian jiu-jitsu in an academy where the people on the mat come from diverse ethnic backgrounds and represent a spectrum of social, political, and spiritual thought. Whether those of us training identify as female, male, trans, or non-binary, we are all there because we acknowledge a shared reality: some bodies are stronger than others. No matter how we identify on the gender spectrum, many of us came to jiu-jitsu for self-defense, and because it allows one to gain the advantage over a person who is bigger, stronger, and more athletic. 

The idea that some bodies are weaker than others is not an invention of the patriarchy--the idea that weaker bodies are less valuable or ideal than stronger bodies *is* a patriarchal invention. Feminist thought should not ignore the lived human experience in favor of engaging with a patriarchal strawman (i.e. physical strength as a prized ideal), which then helps to alienate people who would be feminist allies but who can't engage with a mode of thinking that so disingenuously ignores the reality of their lived experiences.

We should ask: Who benefits when "bodily feminism" (as Kara puts it) is ignored by feminists and feminist thinkers? 

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Monica Frederick's avatar

Hmm! A lot to think about with this post! I’ve been feeling kind of “yucky” with the term feminism for a minute, and I think this post put my feeling into words. Not just the more obvious issues with TERF feminism, but also the type of feminism that is simply teaching femme presenting folks how to convincingly put on a man’s mask.

I had Substack read this article aloud on my drive home, so it gave me a lot to think about while stuck in rush hour! Thanks! 😂

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